The Secret of Good Dialogue

Fictional characters communicate mostly with dialogue to further the plot of a novel. Good dialogue is cherished by intelligent readers because it convinces them that they are observing the story rather than being told by the author. Good dialogue can quickly define characters and further the plot with little or no description. It sounds real--we feel we are there. And yet if we examine how close to reality the aspects of a good novel are, we would discover that although characters and plot may be hugging reality, good dialogue is almost always far away!

Reader, you'd probably think I've gone bananas. You know that most of last century's important writers, people like Hemingway and J D Salinger, listened in on various characters to get things right. So how can good dialogue in fiction be further from reality than both plot and characters? I know it sounds absurd, but it is true. If you want to see this for yourself, take the trouble to record with your cellphone a few everyday conversations. When you play them back, you will discover that they consist mostly of unnecessary words, incomplete sentences, a drifting subject, and echoes of questions or words. Real dialogue lacks interest.

Even if you remove the echoes, rambles and unnecessary words from real dialogue, most readers would still find it boring. Sol Stein, in his masterful Stein on Writing (1995) says that the basic difference between real and fictional dialogue is that real dialogue is “direct” whereas good fictional dialogue is “oblique”. In other words in real conversation we directly answer questions whereas in fiction, characters obliquely answer them to arouse interest.


Let me illustrate. Say you are at work, and all of a sudden plain, unnoticeable Mary, who routinely does secretarial work, has done her hair differently or bought different clothes and you suddenly notice her as a woman. So you look up to her and say what you feel:

My God, you are beautiful!”

In real life, Mary would probably smile politely and just say “thank you.”

But real life dialogue does not usually stimulate curiosity, create tension, change events or relationships. Most of the time we are not quick or intelligent enough to give a suitable answer, much less bring something new to the table. In good dialogue, an author has invested time to expose a character or further the plot and hence arouse our curiosity. In a novel, play or movie the simple exchange above could sound something like this:

My God, you are beautiful!”
I'd like you to meet my husband.”

Or:

My God, you are beautiful!”
You have your contacts on today!”

Each of the artificial dialogues tells us many things in just two lines. What counts is not what is said, but the effect of what is meant. Note that in both artificial dialogue cases, the person spoken to, did not directly comment on the topic at hand (as we do in everyday life) but answered indirectly, obliquely. And that is the secret of good dialogue.

Here are a few more examples between real everyday spoken exchanges followed by fictional dialogue:

(A)
Good morning.”
Good morning.”

Good morning.”
What's so good about it?”

(B)
How are you?”
Fine, and yourself?”
Good.”

How are you?”
OK, I suppose.”
Why, what's the matter?”
You haven't heard?”

(C)
How are things at home?” She had pre-kindergarten twins.
Busy.”

How are things at home?” She had pre-kindergarten twins.
Rumple, ruffle and muck.”

(D)
Simon, you are back!”
Yes.”

Simon, you are back!”
The whale has come for air.”

In the four examples above and with just a few words, an author has (a) exposed a character, (b) furthered the plot, (c) given a strong image of day to day life with small children and (d) described one's psychological condition with an appropriate metaphor. In real life we are not as quick or as intelligent to do so much so quickly.

And that's precisely why we turn off real life and open a good novel.

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1 comment:

  1. I guess this just shows how fiction is more interesting than real life.

    Jeff Pilch

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